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4 Tips for Avoiding Meltdowns When Changing Activities

Does your preschool-age child resist changing activities? Is it hard for them to stop what they’re doing and move on to the next task or activity? Many children have a hard time with this, and it’s one of the biggest causes of meltdowns. Meltdowns are no fun for you and stressful for your child. However, it’s understandable. Change is hard. Even as adults, we struggle with change. (Think back to the last time they rolled out a new procedure at work and everyone groaned.) Fortunately, there are some tips that you can use to reduce the friction in these transitions for your child.

1. Create a predictable ritual around wrapping up an activity

When it’s time to end an activity, especially if it was one that your child was having a lot of fun with, it’s no wonder that they want to hold on to that feeling of enjoyment. However, there are times in life where you simply can’t prolong an activity. If you create a predictable, structured routine that you always follow when it’s time to change from one activity to another, this can ease the transition for your child.

2. Try adding a song

One of the techniques that teachers often use to help with transitions in the classroom is to sing or play a predictable song when it’s time to end an activity. Try Barney’s clean-up song with your kids when it’s time to put away the items you’ve used for an activity:

Clean up, clean up, everybody everywhere.
Clean up, clean up, everybody do your share.

When you consistently use the same song, your kids will begin to recognize it and instantly know what they’re supposed to do. Instead of feeling disoriented about what’s happening, you can replace this with positive emotions of “I know what this is.”

3. Stay positive and cheerful about the change

You know how much your child reads your emotions and reflects that back to you. Think about when your child falls down: if you make a big deal about it, they’ll cry harder, but if you cheerfully say, “Oh! You just got a big bonk. You’re ok!” then (assuming they’re not seriously hurt) they will often get up and carry on with their play. Use the same approach when it’s time to leave the playground or wrap up an activity. Your upbeat attitude can help your kids to realize, “This is going to be ok.” This can help them to establish a positive pattern that will help them all through life.

4. Don’t let tantrums become learned behavior

Your response to the first meltdown is often the key to whether your child will try to repeat that behavior on subsequent occasions. The first meltdown may spring from their genuine sadness and disappointment at leaving an activity—but if they observe that it works to make you backpedal or prolong the activity, then the second meltdown may be simply their negotiation tactic with you. You don’t want tantrums to become a learned behavior, so stand your ground, stay positive, and lovingly direct their energy into the next activity. Once your child learns that switching between activities is ok and the next thing is going to be fun, too, you’ll have a much easier time with transitions.

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The Benefits of Active Learning for Preschoolers
It’s well known that the right learning environment makes a big difference for preschoolers. In fact, it’s practically inconceivable to think of making a preschooler sit at a desk for hours. It simply wouldn’t work. Research has shown that preschoolers learn best when they engage in active learning that’s very similar to play. But why does this work? And how can you harness this knowledge to get the best learning outcomes for your preschool child? Here are some of the benefits of active learning for preschoolers.

1. Movement helps knowledge stick in the brain

Have you ever suspected your preschool child of being distracted and not paying attention because they are moving around everywhere? Actually, the opposite might be true. For children, moving the body is a critical way to help the brain to absorb new information so that it sticks. This is not just for kinesthetic learners; it’s for everyone. And it’s not just for children; it works for adults, too. Think about the last time that you sat through a long conference or seminar where the presenter didn’t give people enough breaks. It’s hard for the mind to keep learning information when you’re stiff and sore because you just want to walk around.

How to harness this tip:

Combine movement with learning when you work with your child. For example, do jumping jacks while you help them to practice counting, or make silly poses while you review flashcards. You’ll be amazed at how well it works.

2. Movement helps promote brain development

The brain of a preschool child is still developing and learning about the world, and movement is one of the big ways that helps the brain to develop. And it doesn’t just develop motor skills, coordination, and balance. It also helps to develop cognition and thinking.

How to harness this tip:

Guide your child through movements that cross the midline of their bodies. For example, have them touch an elbow to the opposite knee, and then switch. Also, try having them touch their hands to the opposite toe or the opposite shoulder. Crossing the midline helps to coordinate the two different hemispheres of the brain, and can help with auditory processing, writing, and using your eyes to track the words from side to side on a page.

3. Movement helps increase a student’s interest

When you’re interested in a subject, you can usually get much farther than when you’re bored. Interest and enthusiasm for a topic help your child to pay attention longer and focus more deeply. Looking for ways to increase their love of learning? Incorporate movement!

How to harness this tip:
- Dance to a silly song with your child
- Incorporate hand movements and actions that go along with what you’re saying.
- Create a drama or a skit to act out a story.
When a child is getting too much screen time, they won’t naturally move around enough, and this could rob them from vital brain development and learning experiences, so do what’s available to limit their screen time and encourage active play.

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Healthy Habits To Teach Your Young Child

It’s January, and the season of New Year’s resolutions is already starting to fade for many of us. Our commitments to go to the gym, eat less junk food, and save money are already fizzling. It’s well known that trying to make resolutions (and keep them) isn’t likely to succeed for most people. However, what is successful is building healthy habits. A habit, once formed, is easier to stick to. It’s a daily, constant friend that becomes a comfortable part of our routine, rather than being a surge of excited energy that fades as quickly as it comes. Set your children up for success by teaching them these healthy habits.

1. Brushing teeth

As a parent, you don’t want to subject your children to tooth decay at an early age. This can leave them with lifelong fear of the dentist as well as persistent trouble with their oral health all through life. Dentists recommend that you begin brushing your child’s teeth as soon as the first tooth appears. Once your child is three to four years old, you can begin to transition the tooth brushing routine to closely supervising them while they do it themselves. Then, when they reach the age of five or six, you can begin to reduce your close supervision while still being close by and making sure that they do it. Make tooth brushing time feel fun, not like a drudgery or a chore. The idea is that brushing teeth will become so automatic that your children feel odd if they don’t do it.

2. Picking up toys

When you have a two-year-old in the house, it can feel like you have a little hurricane. While having toys strewn around everywhere is a constant fact of life for many households, it doesn’t have to be this way. If you train your children in the habit of picking up after themselves, they’ll continue in that habit as long as they live. Make it a point to involve your children in cleaning up one activity before beginning the next. Again, you’re shooting for the result that it becomes automatic to them to pick up one thing before starting something else.

This will take a lot of consistent effort on your part as the parent. Expect to have to guide and supervise your child’s cleanup activities, every single one, from about the age of three to approximately the age of eight. If your child shows initiative and begins to pick up after themselves without being asked, praise and reward that behavior. You’ll thank yourself when you have a neater house, and your child will thank you when they become an adult and realize how valuable this investment was.

3. Going to bed and waking up on a consistent schedule

Children need consistency, and a consistent bedtime is one of the most powerful things that you can do for their brain development and overall health. Yes, it’s difficult to have a consistent routine, and many times your child will try to buck your efforts to put them to bed. However, the benefits are tremendous to having a well-rested child who is used to a predictable routine.

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6 Alternatives to Screen Time For Your Preschooler

There’s no question about it: it’s tempting to let screen time be your preschool child’s babysitter. Whether it’s time on TV, YouTube, a tablet, or your phone, screen time is a mesmerising and all-absorbing thing for children, and it can be a method to allow you to get some much-needed rest, peace, and quiet. However, since too much screen time can hurt your child’s brain development, you need some alternatives of things that you can do with your child to engage their attention, teach them about the world, and build memories of time you’ve spent together. Here are a few ideas from our preschool daycare in Upper Darby.

1. Bake cookies

Preschoolers are not at the age where they can follow a recipe, but they absolutely love to dump the ingredients in the bowl and stir them up. Talk to them while you’re letting them help bake, explaining what you’re about to do at every step before it happens. Give them a heads up of things they won’t know, like “stir gently so that the dough doesn’t come out of the bowl” or “flour will make a mess if it spills, so dump this carefully.” Your child will most likely love the interaction and attention and aim to please. If you do get a few spills, have a moist paper towel handy and don’t make a big deal of the accident.

2. Go outside

Whether you can go to your own backyard or a neighborhood park, taking your child outside is crucial for their development. You will be giving your child fresh air and sunshine as well as a whole host of opportunities to build their motor skills, increase their understanding of cause and effect, and improve their imaginations through exploration.

3. Do puzzles or board games

Doing simple puzzles together helps your preschooler to develop their problem skills, and playing board games helps to develop social skills like turn-taking, how to handle winning and losing, and patience. Age appropriate activities like these are fun for your child, and they’ll probably ask to repeat them again and again.

4. Color

Coloring is a simple activity, but it’s amazing how long a child can remain absorbed in it, especially after you’ve invested a little bit of time in teaching them to color. Provide a little bit of guidance and praise them for the beautiful picture they’ve colored, and you’ll find that coloring can become a staple activity in your repertoire.

5. Read aloud

Reading aloud will boost your child’s vocabulary and language comprehension, and it will also teach them vital skills they’ll need in school, such as page turning and holding their attention through the whole story. Try to make it a practice to read aloud to your toddler or preschooler on a daily basis.

6. Involve them in what you’re doing

This may be one of the very simplest ways to give your child something to do without derailing yourself from your tasks. Whether you’re folding laundry, dusting, picking up clutter, or doing yard work, give your child an age-appropriate opportunity to help, whether it’s holding two socks or following you with their own personal dust cloth.

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5 Nutrition Tips for Toddlers

Getting a toddler to eat is easier said than done. Often, even before a child hits the age of two, they develop strong preferences for foods, and these likes and dislikes can be extremely hard to overcome. However, the value of a nutritious, well-balanced diet can hardly be overstated, and it brings immense benefits to the developing mind and growing body of your young child. Here are a few nutrition-based tips to help your child to get a great start in life.

1. Introduce foods with a positive attitude

Toddlers are masters at reading body language, and they are excellent at mimicking or mirroring the nonverbal signals you’re giving off. If you offer your child a broccoli sprout while your facial is a dead giveaway that says, “I bet my kid is not going to like this,” but you offer them a popsicle with a face that says, “Oh, they’ll be excited about this,” your child may reject the healthier snack purely based on what they’re reading from you. When you introduce healthy snacks to your child, try doing it in a way that conveys excitement, delight, and an upbeat attitude. If your facial expression and body language is saying, “This is going to be absolutely magical,” then your excitement may be contagious and your child may end up loving that broccoli or celery.

2. Limit the availability of junk foods

When you feed a child who is a picky eater, it’s sometimes hard to get them to eat anything but junk food. One simple method that works for adults might work for your child, too: Just refuse to buy it. If you don’t have it in the house, you can’t succumb to taking the easy way out when they are putting up a fuss over eating healthier options.

3. Let your child eat with you

One of the mistakes that parents make is having children eat at a separate table or at separate times from when you’re eating. Like we said, children are masters of imitation, and if your toddler or preschooler sees you eating carrots, they’ll be more likely to want to do it themselves. Your good example can only go so far at getting a young child to eat the right things, but it can play a part.

4. Don’t overlook the power of play

Our grandparents’ generation tended to frown on letting children play with their food, but this is how they interact with everything in the world. Watch how your young child explores almost every toy by putting it into their mouth. Why shouldn’t they explore new foods the same way? If you give a child the opportunity to play with the foods they are supposed to eat, they may just unconsciously start tasting them. You can even increase this propensity by playing with the food with your child.

5. Start at as young an age as possible

The younger your child is, the more they will have a palate that doesn’t discriminate between different-tasting foods. Introduce them to a wide variety of nutritious treats early. And to make it easier on yourself, don’t introduce them to the things that you’ll have to struggle to limit later on, such as ice cream, soda, and candy.

We hope these tips have been helpful to you. Choose our preschool in Upper Darby for a day care program that’s fun, affordable, and nurturing to kids of all ages. Contact us today to start the enrollment process.
3 Reasons Boundaries Are Important for Children (And How To Set Them)
Ah, boundaries. Whether the word conjures up a positive or negative image in your mind, the fact is that little children need boundaries and benefit from them. Parenting isn’t easy, and setting proper boundaries is one of the parts that doesn’t always come naturally. However, here at our day care in Upper Darby, we’ve noticed that children tend to thrive when they have healthy boundaries in their life. Here are some of the reasons why it’s important for children to have healthy boundaries, with a few tips on how to set them. Please note that the very youngest children need more boundaries than older ones. As they grow up, their boundaries can (and should) be given a wider girth and scope.

1. Boundaries make children feel safe.

There’s something about knowing where the boundaries are that makes children feel safe. If a little child doesn’t know where the boundaries are, they will push and push until they find where the boundaries are. Once a young child knows that a boundary is immovable, they generally tend to stop pushing. However, if a child never encounters where the boundaries are, they experience a vague insecurity that can lead to behavior problems. It’s as if children instinctively know that there should be boundaries.

2. Boundaries help children to feel that the world is predictable.

If there is a boundary one minute (“You’re not allowed to do this”) and it’s gone the next (“OK, ok, you can do this after all”), children will develop a theory that the world is unpredictable, and this contributes to insecurity and acting erratically. Adults who always follow through on what they say (with kindness, gentleness, and firmness) can help a child to grow up with a healthy outlook and accurate understanding of the world. We recommend that as a parent, you attempt to be a “solid object” that can’t be ruffled, agitated, or moved by your child’s behavior, as they will push on the boundary to see if it’s solid.

3. Boundaries help children to interact with others in a healthy way.

It hurts to be told no or not get your way, even as an adult. However, if a child learns that they can reverse a no and change it into a yes by throwing a temper tantrum, they could potentially learn patterns of interacting with others that are not healthy. These patterns will either have to be dealt with later in life or they will cause damage to your child’s interactions with their future peers, boss, and/or spouse.

Tips for setting boundaries for young children
- Setting boundaries (and sticking to them) should never be done in a way that is mean, ugly, or angry.
- You never actually need to raise your voice in enforcing a boundary. You can calmly remind the child in a kind tone of voice that such and such is not acceptable and redirect their action into the course that they ought to take.
- Don’t backtrack or go back on your word. This may require you to not say something that you don’t have the authority or ability to enforce.
Set your child up for success with proper, healthy, wholesome boundaries. They might not thank you now, but they’ll be grateful later. For nurturing, positive day care in Upper Darby, choose Darlene’s Wee Care 4 Kids today. Schedule your tour and enroll your child.